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Posted: 10 Feb 2008 11:31 PM CST

Creeva says:

as to some­one that has known you for years and has been mar­ried for 9 years I can impart this to you. Find­ing some­one shouldn’t be dif­fi­cult, if it is, it’s not the right per­son. What is cor­rect for some­one is not cor­rect for the other.

If the per­son you are with is caus­ing heart break and wrench­ing beyond belief, you need to move on. If the per­son you run into gives you more joy and light in your life then oth­ewie would be and hte good out weighs the bad, that is the rela­tion­ship you chase.

The peo­ple you are with that may share your bed is not the sum of a rela­tion­ship, the per­son that chal­lenges you and helps you to grow is what you foster.

If you allow things to hap­pen nat­u­rally instead of chas­ing after them, it may be eas­ier. This is how it should be. Friend­ships that grow into rela­tion­ships can go either way. Once you find out where you want it to go focus on that path, if the other doesn’t want that, reassess, dis­cuss, and decide if it’s time to move.

In this regard this is about the best advice I can give you on the gen­er­al­i­ties you have posted about. I hope all is well and you find where your soul should be and one day find the mate with whom you are meant to share it.