Planting Trees

July 13, 2008

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Original From Parent Phobia: Planting Trees

You would think that on a blog named parent phobia, that when I start a blog post off with the title “Planting Trees” that I’m going to be speaking in the metaphorical sense. Well, your half right.

Today I slept in late and did my normal computing activities. I knew I had to wake up early tomorrow so I proceeded to mow my lawn. On a side note if you turn your mower upside down and it doesn’t start, you need to replace your air filter. I’m not a normal out in the yard kind of guy. I’m a in the artificial light sit at the computer kind of guy, much to the chagrin to my “I love the outdoors” wife. But I stayed outside I finished the yard and proceeded to weed.

As I was weeding I noticed that there was some saplings growing here and there. Now they weren’t in a spot where I wanted them to stay, but I didn’t need to outright kill them. I spent hours (I said I don’t take the best care of my lawn) taking out saplings from here or there and replacing them in along the edge of my properties. The varieties were Oak and some such tree I can’t identify. Xie came outside and helped with about half of the planting. Quite a few of the Oak saplings came from my gutters, we will go back to the fact I don’t care.

All said and done almost 40 saplings were planted, with another 10 – 20 to go tomorrow (more if I find another stash. Not all the saplings could be saved, some were mangled trying to remove them. It wasn’t in the cards for those trees. Currently on the property we had 16 trees – so now we have a total of 56, with of course more coming. This means less grass for me to mow in the long term.

Now for the metaphorical part of the discussion. Being a parent is a lot like plantings trees. You will push ideas down to your child and hope some of them take root. I know all the trees I planted won’t survived, but it cost me nothing other then a day of planting. Exposure to ideas, even those you don’t agree with is important. Your child needs to understand your views as much as they need to arrive at their own conclusions. You shouldn’t expect your child to be a clone of yourself, nor should you even want that.

This of course is just a the metaphor that I came up while I was working. Take it for what it is, but it still was alot of physical labor..

Original From Parent Phobia: Planting Trees

4 thoughts on “Planting Trees

  1. The parallels' drawn here are fascinating. It reminds me of an incident when I nurtured a shrub in our garden thinking it to be an attractive specimen and certainly one worthwhile tending to. I willingly fended for this shrub for the best part of a year and enjoyed seeing it thrive as it established itself in the garden. A couple of days ago a friend noticed this shrub and stated that it was a dreadful noxious shrub and was abhorred to hear that I had been encouraging its growth. Needless to say I was devastated by this news and see myself resigning to the fact that it will have to be removed. Perhaps I should have done a little research into this plant and saved myself a fair amount of time spent dedicated to its growth. There goes any reaping from my innocent endeavors' to nurture and take pride in my stint at gardening. I guess we need to be mindful of what we sow and be grateful for any favourable outcome.

  2. I can say that about 15 of the trees survived – they are still saplings but they are growing. I've had my share of weeds I've nurtured in life – both metaphorically and in reality.

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  4. I can say that about 15 of the trees survived – they are still saplings but they are growing. I've had my share of weeds I've nurtured in life – both metaphorically and in reality.

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