This one is a day late.…..
A few months ago I wrote about the girl that was my longest relationship before my wife. Well this girl was a lot like my mother. She was very bossy and wanted things a certain way. She cared about the appearance of things and not the reality. I don’t want to hash everything I wrote in the other post here again, so I won’t. Read the link if you want ot hear more about her.
On the other hand, during that whole on again off again relationship, I managed to essentially date and live with a girl just like mom. It was the relationship from hell, and I’m sure part of me deserved it. The best thing is after the relationship was over and I was with my future wife I saw how much that girl was like my mother. It also made me realize how much I’m like my father. So in turn I realized how much it was never going to work out.
Maybe my anger towards my ex bleeds over to the anger I have my mother (or vice versa). Who knows.
This wasn’t meant to be a long post, but more of one stating that I did not marry a girl just like mom. I just dated one.